Tom Boyd, a premiership player with the Western Bulldogs, conveyed a heartfelt message on mental health during the fifth annual Spud’s Game, an event established in memory of Danny “Spud” Frawley, who tragically took his life in 2019. Speaking to a crowd of thousands at the Melbourne Cricket Ground (MCG), Boyd highlighted the importance of community support, urging members of the AFL family to embody “character, conviction and courage” in looking out for their friends.
Having retired from professional football at just 23 due to mental health struggles, Boyd is now an outspoken advocate for mental health awareness. He reminded attendees that true change requires collective action, saying, “It would take people like all of you here tonight…and those of you who are watching and listening along at home.” He encouraged everyone to participate in Spud’s Game, emphasising the need for leaders within communities to promote mental health support.
Boyd described checking in on friends as a crucial yet simple task, urging that this act of kindness is a “non-negotiable”. He compared it to “one-percenters” in football—small actions that might seem minor but are essential and can have profound effects, even saving lives. He implored the audience to bring their “courage” to this vital task.
Accompanying Boyd was Chelsea Frawley, one of Danny’s daughters, who collaborates with the Danny Frawley Centre for Health and Wellbeing. Chelsea similarly shared her sentiments, underlining that the conversation around mental health extends beyond her family and sport, calling for actionable changes within the community.
The emotional moment was supported by Danny’s family, including his wife Anita and their other daughters, Danielle and Keeley. As Boyd concluded his speech, he playfully called on players to give their all during the match, reflecting the spirit of Danny, who was known for his dedication on the field.
Boyd and Chelsea both donned Spud’s Game scarves during the address, symbolising their commitment to raising awareness about mental health. Through initiatives like Spud’s Game, they believe there is potential for genuine impact and partnership within the community to alleviate mental health challenges faced by many.
For anyone seeking immediate support, organisations including Lifeline are available, offering vital assistance to those in need.