In 1996, while thriving as a photographer in Sydney, I was exploring identity through worldwide performances. During a Brisbane tour, I met Scott, a young chaperone from a gay and lesbian group. Despite our 30-year age difference, I was drawn to his intellect and passion for gay politics. After our initial meeting, we shared a tender kiss, setting the stage for a deepening connection.
Over time, we navigated a long-distance relationship, visiting each other regularly. Scott’s academic interests complemented my artistic pursuits, and we both valued our independence. However, when my brother unexpectedly passed away, it was Scott who became my anchor. He supported me through the chaotic days surrounding the funeral, even locating my brother’s will amid family tensions, solidifying my trust in him.
As I’ve aged, my priorities in relationships have shifted, with trust now paramount. Despite living in different states and maintaining an open relationship, I entrusted Scott with power of attorney—a commitment I regard as more significant than marriage. Our bond has evolved into one of mutual respect and reliability, underscoring that true companionship transcends age and conventional norms.