Tom Boyd, a former AFL player and premiership winner with the Western Bulldogs, shared an impactful message about mental health during Spud’s Game on Friday night. This annual event commemorates the late Danny “Spud” Frawley, who tragically died by suicide in 2019, and was marked for the fifth time this year.
Boyd, who retired at the young age of 23 due to his own mental health struggles, spoke passionately to a large crowd at the MCG, calling on everyone in the AFL community to exhibit the “character, conviction and courage” needed to check in on friends and community members. Highlighting the importance of these small but significant gestures, he urged those present to contribute to Spud’s Game and become leaders in promoting mental health awareness.
He said, “If you can put your hand up and support Spud’s Game by donating this year, please do.” Boyd emphasised the necessity of checking in on mates as a crucial, non-negotiable action, akin to the “one-percenters” in football—small actions that can have a profound impact. He encouraged everyone to show their courage in this regard, as these simple efforts could help save lives.
Joining Boyd was Chelsea Frawley, one of Danny’s daughters, who also spoke movingly about her father’s legacy and the need for community involvement in mental health matters. Chelsea works at the Danny Frawley Centre for Health and Wellbeing, which aims to support mental health initiatives. Observing from the crowd were Danny’s wife and two other daughters, signifying the family’s ongoing connection to this cause.
Boyd quipped that Danny would have appreciated their message, particularly against the backdrop of an exciting AFL match between St Kilda and Carlton. He encouraged players to embody the courage and spirit that Danny displayed throughout his career and rallied fans to make noise in support of the cause, promoting a spirit of unity and awareness.
Reflecting on the past five years of sharing her father’s story through Spud’s Game, Chelsea noted the broader significance of mental health initiatives, stating that they empower communities to create meaningful change.
The ceremony concluded with a heartfelt applause from the crowd, celebrating Frawley’s legacy. Frawley, known for his remarkable career at St Kilda, where he played 240 games and served as captain, also found success as a coach and a beloved media figure.
For those needing immediate support, Boyd’s message resonated with the importance of reaching out, and Lifeline remains available for assistance at 13 11 14.