Former AFL player Xavier Ellis has shared his profound grief following the recent death of his close friend, Adam Selwood, a former member of the West Coast Eagles. The loss comes just months after Adam’s twin brother, Troy, tragically took his own life. Joel Selwood, another prominent figure in the AFL and younger brother of Adam, posted an emotional tribute on social media, mourning the passing of his brother at the age of 41.
Ellis, who joined the Eagles in 2014, formed a close bond with the Selwood family, particularly with Adam, who was part of the coaching staff despite having just retired. After news of Adam’s death, Ellis briefly stepped back from his radio show. Upon returning, he expressed his heartbreak and shared the intense challenges faced by the Selwood family during the past few months.
He revealed how he connected with family members and described the overwhelming grief they are enduring. His sentiments reflected a wider recognition of the mental health struggles that are prevalent in society. Ellis recounted a conversation with a doctor who noted a significant rise in men seeking mental health support.
In a poignant Instagram post, Joel Selwood conveyed his sorrow, urging everyone to take care of one another during such difficult times. This tragedy has sparked discussions about the need for greater awareness around mental health, particularly in sport, with calls for a dedicated mental health round in the AFL gaining momentum.
Ellis emphasised the importance of engaging deeply with those who may be struggling, advocating for a more compassionate approach rather than merely asking surface-level questions about well-being. He encouraged people to be proactive and supportive, providing essential assistance to friends who may be facing mental health challenges.
In closing, Ellis highlighted the reality that mental health issues affect everyone, regardless of their circumstances, urging individuals to reach out and help those in need. If anyone is struggling, support is available through resources like Lifeline.